Been troubleshooting this for awhile and from talking with Tablo, and Spectrum (modem) tech support both say they think my problem with the daily reset of Remote Access and having to manually reset the port settings lies with my router (AirPort Extreme) 6th gen.
I can go on but would like to hear if others who used Apple AirPort Extreme have found that they just won’t do it because of age built and newer technology or if it might just be my particular router problem.